You know some things are just out of your control-they just happen upon you, or do they? Are we subjective to the circumstance or the environment or do we choose it? I find myself in a quite sticky situation. Without revealing family details, I have been gifted this young man. In the midst of taking this unexpected joy on, I find myself in constant turmoil with another whom has fallen to the depths of drugs, meth-the thief of souls. Do I choose the chaos and vague threats or are they thrust upon me by the demons of meth? I continue to deal with it when what I want is for this person to stop-just stop and choose your children instead of tormenting me and others for taking on the responsibilities of raising your children, just stop-stop using the drugs, stop threatening, stop dealing, stop interfering-just stop. Let the kids recover from the clenches of Meth-let them heal and stop-just stop causing grief to those that are attempting to help. Are we choosing this chaos or are we just victims of the situation?